โ๐~A Magickal Book-Blog Featuring A Free-Spirited & Custom Made Bibliophile ~๐ฎ
Hello my amazing followers!๐ I hope everyone has been having a great week! I wanted to give an update saying I’m sorry I haven’t been writing and liking everyone’s posts as usual. Unfortunately, I have had some major health concerns arise so have been bed ridden!๐ข I will try to show my love here and there as much as possible but am still not fully functioning yet! I still love all you guys and anyone who takes out their time to comment or like, I will get around to showing you the same love but if you don’t hear back from me at the usual speed now you know why! I have been over the moon with everyone’s positive feedback, prayers/vibes/ thoughts, compliments on my new layout and encouraging comments! You guys are the best! With having little support and the inability to get out and spread my wings, you guys have been my life saviors. I was in a very dark place before getting involved in the blogosphere and now I have over 600 followers and growing. YAY! Of course, in the beginning I had no faith in my ability to blog and just thought I just sucked until I met Kim @ By Hook or By Book and then I spread my wings! Thank you guys again for all your support and there’s so many of you to recognize that it would take all day to list you all! Now I am rambling on again, but the point is I’m sorry if I don’t respond right away and wanted you all to know that I really appreciate you!๐
Now here’s where I give you some info and explain some things. I know some of my friends in the blogging community have noticed my bulk of reviews at a time and think that I am a speed demon reader. This is not the case my loves, I am behind on reviews!๐ฐ๐ฐ Also when you see a blitz and giveaway post, that is merely me showing off new books that a company has sent me and they offer these free giveaways that are 100% legit because I have won a couple myself. You can sometimes win vacations, gift cards, free books or other cool items all depending on the giveaway! I love sharing these and usually it’s shared once a day because of giving people the opportunity to read about it if they want and/or sign up for free stuff. You can easily enter the giveaway just because you follow me or comment on the post!
Unfortunately, I have been having some horrible problems with WordPress because of sharing these posts and doing blog tour reviews! I was suspended because of this and went through a nightmare! I was completely disrespected and told I had to self host which meant over 100$ and I lost all my followers unless I paid another 100$ give or take! After I paid 100$ to self host because at the time I was told I would keep all my stuff and didn’t tell me they would charge for that too, WordPress sends me an apology activating my blog again after I already paid. So then I had to go and ask for a refund that will take a week atleast because I still haven’t gotten it! Even though I was lucky enough to get my blog back after continuously writing with them and pleading, I have some followers who were not as lucky and screwed over for this. I reviewed their TOS that they said I violated and didn’t see anything wrong?! They feel that sharing giveaways, info about new books and reviews for blog tours is spam! Now I am conflicted if I should even share giveaways or do blog tours anymore!?? Does anyone have any thoughts?
I know many people have shared that they get overwhelmed with all the emails they receive from their followers and I hope that one of my shares didn’t cause anyone to report me as spam. So this is where I give some useful information, hopefully. In the beginning I didn’t know this but you can control what emails get sent to your account by your followers. I don’t get any emails besides my faithful blogger friends who comment on all my posts. Most of the time I just wait and get all my notifications of responses of comments, likes and other stuff when I get online and look at my notifications. Then I go and comment or like back. If I want to check out my other followers I simply go through the readers newsfeed. Doing this prevents my email account from being overwhelmed and going insane with all the time consuming of notification emails sent. I barely get any emails from WordPress and it’s less stressful than when I started out. You can change all these settings in your settings on your dashboard for notifications! If someone’s posts are too overwhelming and I’m sorry if mine are than you can simply unfollow. I explained all this because of seeing people get overwhelmed with this and being called spam by WordPress 3 times last week alone. I dealt with crazy things and rude customer service even though I was a paying customer.
I know this posts has quite a few different things but I wanted to cover a few things in one! I’m using my kindle and it’s a little weird so I apologize about any grammatical errors!
Overall, I really just want to thank you all for being my support system. You really have made a difference in my life and I couldn’t make it without you guys. You all are amazing! Lots of love and virtual hugs to everyone!๐ -Dani ๐ Xoxox
All that sounds crappy, for sure. But I’m just happy you’re still here. ๐
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It was a nightmare and I’m scared it will happen again, but I’m glad I’m back for now. Thanks so much for your support my friend! You are such an amazing asset to the blogosphere!๐
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Aw, thank you. Your’e pretty friggin’ great yourself. ๐
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Aww YAY ๐๐๐๐๐
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Feel better Dani……..sorry about WP……..that sucks!!๐๐๐
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Thanks so much Susan! It was a nightmare hon but I’m glad I’m back for now. Thanks so much for sharing your love and support on my blog!๐๐๐
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Take careโค๏ธ
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Thanks so much Ovy! You rock!
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Thatโs horrible that you had go go through that. You should be able to reblog whatever you want, itโs your blog. Iโm sorry to hear about what happened but Iโm happy your back.
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Thanks Yoly! It really is ridiculous and I don’t understand because people sell and use business pages all the time but they have been cracking down on book bloggers for some reason. Thanks so much for your kind words and support on my blog!๐๐ค๐
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Dani, no apologies are necessary. You need to take care of yourself! And you’ve shared some great info here as well which just makes you doubly awesome!๐
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Thanks Kim!๐ You truly are the best and I’m so blessed to have met you.๐๐
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xoxo
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I’m so sorry about what happened!!!! I’m praying for you! You’re one of my favorite blogs and you’re so amazing and sweet! I’m sorry you went through such horrible things and I’m here if you need any help with anything!!! Just let me know โค ๐
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Thanks so much for your kind words and support my friend! Abigail, I just love your blog and posts! Thanks for everything and if you ever need anything as well you can contact me at my email it’s at the top of my homepage on my blog!๐๐ค๐๐
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Well done for sticking with all that, and fighting your corner. I hope that you get that money back soon, Dani.
I hope all that stress didn’t make you feel worse, and that you will soon be on the mend.
Take care.
Best wishes as always, Pete. xx
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Thanks so much for your support my friend!๐ You always brighten my day Pete! To be honest, the stress and hours I went through hell with WordPress made my health worse because my seizures and convulsions worsen with stress. It’s been a really hard week for me. I ended up messing up my back, foot, shoulder and head because of two bad seizures. I’m bruised up and have some other breaks and such. But I will make it. I am a tough cookie! I hope you have a great week Pete! Xoxo
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Sweety, you take the time to get better first. You are your first priority, not the blog. You have a great number of followers that feel the same way, which I’m sure of. ((( Hugs ))) coming your way. Just get your needed rest. Love, Beck.
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Awww. Beckie! Thanks so much sweetheart! You are such an AMAZING person! You are so strong and inspiring! Thanks for all your support my friend!๐ค๐
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Thak you, Dani. Just take good care of yourself. ๐
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Will do!๐
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Sorry to hear about your illness, get well soon. I usually get in touch with followed bloggers and my followers through my reader feed. I don’t check my emails coming from my followers, you can always see them on your notifications.
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That’s what I do Arlene. You can actually disable getting any emails and that’s what I did. Thanks so much for your support my friend!๐
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Dani I hope only the best for your recovery I hope that all stays well with your blog I might have missed it but why are you flat on your back if you don’t mind me asking? my prayers go out to you
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Thanks so much for your kind words and support my friend! I had two horrible seizures that and now I am getting over a concussion, busted up foot, face, and shoulder. I am in remission from liver cancer and have rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia, narcolepsy, epilepsy and my inflammation and other blood levels is showing I have the inflammation and pain of an 80 year old with osteoporosis. Its a lot of other stuff but pretty much I am battling a lot of health concerns and got injured bad this last week.
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I’m sending a big prayer for you I had no idea a person could have that much pain that is not good I wish I could take your pain and suffering away and give you a ray of sunshine . Prays and happiness be with you
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Thanks so much for your kind words! They mean the world to me!๐ I am making it though! I am able to go on many adventures with my books and have friendship and support through my blog!๐
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by the way Dani do you review a authors book for anyone or do you do this for a certain company? reason I ask is I’m a newbie writer I will have a e-book ready to view by April would I be able to interest you in reading and giving me your honest opinion ? Please let me know if your interested?
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Yes I do author requests for books and it’s just me as my company, Touch My Spine Book Reviews. My schedule is booked for a couple of months but I am able to do honest reviews then. You can contact me through my email account that is listed on my homepage of my blog. It has a link right to it at the very top. Good luck on your new book and you can write me if interested or what not.
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MY DARLING BLOGGER BABE ๐โค๏ธ You should not be apologizing omg what youre doing for the authors and us readers mean a lot !! ๐โค๏ธ You always brighten my day with your posts and comments ๐ Dont forget that ! I hope you rest well and recover soon my love !!
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MY BLOGGER LOVE!๐๐๐๐๐ You are the best Trang!๐ You always brighten my day and help me get along!๐ I hope your not working yourself to death! Love ya!๐
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Sending you love and calm Dani.โค๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
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Thanks so much Sandy!!!๐ That means so much to me! ๐๐๐๐๐
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Okay: I don’t think this response is going to come as a real surprise here, but….Seriously Dani, there really is nothing to apologise for! ๐ I love your posts, I love your comments….even if they would number in the 1000’s I would still love them ๐ (Okay, I might not be able to read them all anymore, but that’s my problem lol). Seriously though, there really is absolutely nothing, nothing to worry about. There’s no way that I am going to change my settings, because I love hearing from you.
And really: be confident in yourself. I just know that I speak for pretty much all of your followers that you spread light, happyness and a lot of good feelings with each and every one of your comments. Never stop doing it, because it’s what makes you so unique and such an incredibly bright and lovely soul.
I’m really sorry to hear that you are still not feeling better. Please focus on getting better soon: your blog and your followers will wait for you: and remember you are worth the wait! Please take good care of yourself, and be well soon ๐๐
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I just saw this comment and oh man Michel, you are the sweetest guy ever!!! Thanks for being awesome! I wrote all this because I didn’t know if someone was reporting me as spam and jjst wanted toet them know. You really have no idea how much your words mean to me!!!๐๐๐ Thanks so much love for being an awesome friend! You rock!!!๐ค๐
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Well…I really hope nobody did this, but I honestly don’t think so. Everyone knows you are not a spammer, and all you do is just spread great happyness each and every day and make everybody’s lives so much brighter. You are really an amazing friend yourself. Thank you for being you, and such an amazing person ๐
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Awww!๐๐๐ YAY ๐๐๐
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I’ve only just found your blog after Raistlin made the community aware of your suspension but once your blog was back I’ve really enjoyed reading through some of your past posts. It really sucks you got suspended and I really hope this never happens again.
I’m looking forward to future content and wishing you and the blog the best.
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Thanks fpr the LOVE sorry I didn’t see this before! WordPress had it in spam!๐ญ
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No problem. WordPress does that occasionally.
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No need to apologise, Dani. Well done you for carrying on such a successful battle with WordPress, especially when your health wasn’t great. I hope you don’t have any more WP problems and I hope you feel better soon.
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Thanks so much for your kind words and support Mary! I really hope and pray that I don’t have to go through thaf craziness again! *crosses fingers* I hope you have a great week!
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Well, I’m glad that it all got sorted out in the end, and I hope that your bed rest is putting you on the fast-track to a full recovery!
Thanks for sharing the tips on notifications. That’s the setup I already have. I can only imagine how annoying it might be to get email notifications for everything that happens on wordpress. Once you have it setup right, though, it really isn’t very intrusive. Hopefully other people will read this and be helped!
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Thanks so much Chauncey! I was actually thinking about you last night because I started ro read your book!๐ I am definitely glad that it all worked out in the end. It was a complete nightmare. I think it is best to not get all nirificatjons via email for WordPress but have heard aome people mention it and I know when I started out that I didn’t know thus so had 100s of emails a day!๐คค Now things are much easier! Thanks so much for your kind words and support! I hope I can get through all this as well! I’m already very intrigued with your book but I’m scared I’m going to be scared!๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฑ
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Oh, you’ve already started it? That’s great! I didn’t expect you to get around to it until next year! It’s a bit creepy, but I don’t think it’ll leave you feeling scared once it’s over. ๐ Hope it can keep you entertained while you recuperate!
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Yay! Yeah I was looking through all my books and their reviews and wanted something mysterious and out of the ordinary. I also remember interacting with you and you are an awesome guy so was like “I think this may be the perfect read I am looking for right now.” I wanted something a bit fast pace and twists to help this slump and ugh I am going through! Thanks so much again for this opportunity! You rock!๐๐
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Well I hope it fits the bill!
And thank you for your kind words! You’re such a positive online presence and I really admire that.
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Thanks so much Chauncey, that means the world to me! Yay!๐๐๐ I was reading your about me and stuff last night but I love your dedication to your family and your favorites I have to admit I have the same on a lot of them! I also loved your history of writing!๐ I am about to get snuggled up with your book now!
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Yes, my list of favorites is full of classics, though there are a few odd things in the list as well. Thanks for checking it out! I personally like when people open up a bit in their about section, though I understand why some people are hesitant to do so.
Hope my comment doesn’t interrupt your reading!
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Nah you didn’t interupt me at all. I finally decided to catch up on some reviews fro NetGalley and going to save your book after so I can pay full attention to it! I can’t wait!๐
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Sounds good! Enjoy the NetGalley stuff! ๐
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Thanks so much! I’m glad to get some out the way so I can get to reading! Yay!
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I’m thrilled you are back and glad to see WordPress has come to its senses. That suspension was ridiculous, but happy to have you back. Plus, I’m liking your steamy reviews.
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Thanks so much Vinnie!๐ I just noticed your steamy blog was suspended?!!! Damn WP!!! ๐๐๐
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Yeah I saw that. I may set up another steamy blog, with more writing than imagery. I’m not sure how to though.
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As you know I’m so happy you got your wp nightmare sorted but more importantly I’m sending you healing vibes for a speedy recovery. You also know I love the redesign too ๐
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Thanks so much sweetheart!๐ That means the world to me coming from a
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Shoot my comment prematurely sent! That means a lot coming from a professional like you. Thanks so much for all your support! You’re the best!๐
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I don’t know about professional lol but thanks.
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You do all the book tours and do html codes and shit like that and have a business doing it so I think that’s professional.Lol
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Ha ha ha yeah I guess so. I’d prefer having more clients though lol.
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I guess with being busy it’s hard to advertise to your full potential and all that.๐ค I actually was reading about blog tours and how they become sucessful (random late night reading) you have enough blog hosts as well girl? I was even looking through like everyone’s packages and what they do and what not. It’s kind of ironic I landed upon that and then you talk about it. Lol.
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That’s exactly that! It’s a fulltime job and I have a 3 yr old at home with me. So I can’t actively advertise it because I don’t have 40 hrs a week to dedicate to it. Maybe 30 if I don’t sleep ๐ I love it though! It’s like my dream job so right now I will give 150% to the clients I do have and let word of mouth do the advertising for me right now. I’ve worked with some amazing authors and some have become regulars! I love that ๐ค
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That is pretty AWESOME! Yeah with being a stay at home mom it must be really hard but atleast you go that extra mile for your clients. I’m going to spread the word myself to some of the new authors I chat with. Just pass along the word and whatnot. Lol
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I love that. Thank you!
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I realized the question I just asked was too blunt and probably shouldn’t have asked over blog thread! *smacks forehead* sorry!
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I hope you get feeling better, how awful! Kim was one of my very first followers too, and she is SO encouraging! Glad you’re back, but get some rest!!! Your health is number ONE ๐
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Thanks so much Didi!๐๐๐ She is awesome and so supportive!๐ Just like you! I will try my best on my health and thanks for being such an awesome friend! Love ya girl! Keep being the Boss you are!๐
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I love you too! ๐ get some rest my friend! ๐
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Yes ma’am!๐๐๐
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I almost got arrested once over bed rest and books BTW ๐๐ … I was down for a couple months during a pregnancy (and staying close to my hospital a couple hours from home) and didn’t return library books! I was home for two days when an officer came knocking on my door to serve me fines and court papers!
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Bahahahah!!!๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ That’s hilarious and made my day! You rock Didi
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๐๐ lol my husband and his entire family teased me for weeks lol… “only you would get a court summons delivered by a cop over books” ๐๐
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That is so funny!!! This seems like something that would happen to me. Lol. I didn’t know you could get court summons for library books! Lol๐๐๐
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Apparently in Utah ๐๐๐๐ maybe I coulda got away with it if I was a Mormon lmao jk … kinda ๐
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Lmao!!!๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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Big hugs again to you Dani. I’m just glad this nightmare is almost over for you so you can focus on feeling better.
What I also do to help control the number of emails is to put some blogs I follow on “receive daily”. So i would just get one email from you every day with all your posts. If I want to check out your site at anytime I can… and I do, cuz it’s awesome! ๐
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Now I have to go stalk your site again cuz I’m want to find a review you did earlier this week ๐
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Lol!๐ You are too funny! You can stalk me all you want! I stalk and spam you as well! hehe!๐
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Hahaha. Go right ahead ๐
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Big hugs to you!!!!๐ Thanks for sharing this awesome information! I think this will also be very helpful for bloggers who are overwhelmed with emails! You rock!๐
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So do you.
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No worries! It is a lot of work but I’m proud of it and I love it so if there are any potential clients reading… “You will get my A game always!” ๐
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I know you have many awesome tour hosts and you always give your 100% the other blog tour companies I have worked with are way less personable. Kind of robotic in a way.
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Granted they are much larger but I get it. When my kid starts school in the fall, that’s when I’m really going to hunker down and focus
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I’m actually talking to an author friend now about your services because she is having troubles with some stuff
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Woo hoo! Send her my way! I’ll sort her out and I’m having a sale right now ๐
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I just told her that! She actually wants to asks some questions! I told her I would ask you to contact her I wrote u a message on twitter
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Awesome!
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Oh pumpkin, I’m so sorry you had to go through this crap and the stress has affected your health. At least it’s sorted now so you can carry on being awesome. I don’t know how much it’s medically possible for you to get better but I really genuinely hope that something happens to improve your situation. I’m so glad you’ve found the blogging community and you’re able to draw strength from everyone. Big hugs my lovely xxx
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Aww thanks so much sweetheart! That means the world to me!๐ I am so thankful for the support and love I get on here! It’s ama just like you!!!!๐๐๐
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and lots of hugs!!!!!!XOXOXOXO
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I’m sorry to hear you’ve had so many problems! I hope everything gets sorted out and you can have a happy holiday. All the best xoxo
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Thanks so much Jill. Today was a good day but still struggling health wise! I appreciate all your kind words!๐ xoxo
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