So here’s the thing, I am fluffy! There I went out and said it and laid it all out there. I have done modeling in my past. I am not going to lie, I have even exotic danced in my youth. I was always complimented on my looks and I am not saying that to brag at all. The truth of it all is I never felt beautiful and felt far from what was expected. I had my daughter unexpectedly at the age of 19 and started having health issues that effected my weight and this brought on a different set of compliments not that I was beautiful or whatever but I was really pretty for a big or fat girl. Some people don’t realize the damage that this statement can cause. My family has been notorious to this day to always say you would be a knock out and gorgeous if you just lost some weight. These words hurt. Just like it may hurt a thin woman saying “if you gained some weight you would look more beautiful”.
The truth in all of it is that words hurt and I have a huge complex about my weight but as I near 30, I am starting to realize more that men/women all have different tastes and I don’t have to be a size small to be beautiful. Maybe with time, I can regain the confidence that I once have but I wanted to let every woman out there know that you are beautiful. I believe we all are created differently and there is someone out there that will find you perfect just as you are. Our appearances will all fade at some point but the beauty of your heart and soul will outshine and can last forever.
I hope whomever and whatever size you are that you know you are beautiful just as you are.💖🤗😘
Love yourselves Ladies!!!💖💖💖